Skip to content

The UNBOTHERED Library

You don't always need a session.

Sometimes you need the right thing at the right moment.

  • A new perspective.
  • A question you haven't asked yourself.
  • Something to help you understand what's really happening underneath the way you're feeling.
  • Or a practice that helps you shift it.

The UNBOTHERED Library is where I share the tools, teachings, and resources I've created from more than 15 years of helping people understand themselves, heal what's underneath their patterns, and create meaningful change.

Start wherever something speaks to you.

A stack of linen-bound books

Start here · Free

Daily Self-Care

Self-care isn't just what you do when you're overwhelmed. It's the way you build a relationship with yourself that says:

I matter too.

This simple daily guide helps you intentionally care for the different parts of yourself, without turning self-care into another thing you have to be perfect at.

Download the free Daily Self-Care guide

For parents

The HeartFull Parent

You can love your child deeply and still have your own wounds show up in the way you parent. Understand what's happening underneath your reactions so you can respond from the parent you want to be.

Explore The HeartFull Parent

For kids

Helping Kids Understand Their Inner World

A guided workbook designed to help children understand their emotions, build self-awareness, and begin developing a healthy relationship with themselves. Created with both the child and the grown-up supporting them in mind.

Explore the children's workbook
Coming soon

Listen + practice

Meditations, EFT + Guided Practices

Sometimes understanding something isn't what you need next. You need to experience something different. Guided meditations, EFT practices, visualization, and other tools to move beyond insight and practice a different way of being.

Explore guided practices

Learn · UNBOTHERED Teachings

  • Why does this bother me so much?
  • Why do I keep repeating the same pattern?
  • Why can I know something logically and still feel completely different emotionally?
  • How do I actually change a belief?
  • How do I stop abandoning myself?
  • How do I become the person I want to be?

This is where I take what I've learned about psychology, neuroscience, relationships, trauma, spirituality, and personal transformation and make it useful in real life.

Short lessons. New perspectives. Things to try.

No psychology degree required.

Explore UNBOTHERED Teachings

Meet Lumora

A different way to check in with yourself.

Lumora was created to help you slow down, notice what's happening underneath the surface, and reconnect with yourself in the moments you need it most.

Explore Lumora

Browse the Library

Take what helps.

Free Guide

Daily Self-Care

Self-care isn't just what you do when you're overwhelmed. It's the way you build a relationship with yourself that says: I matter too. A simple daily guide for caring for the different parts of yourself, without turning it into another thing to be perfect at.

Start HereSelf
Download
Workbook

The HeartFull Parent

You can love your child deeply and still have your own wounds show up in the way you parent. Understand what's happening underneath your reactions so you can respond from the parent you want to be.

ParentingWorkbooks
Purchase
Workbook

Helping Kids Understand Their Inner World

A guided workbook designed to help children understand their emotions, build self-awareness, and begin developing a healthy relationship with themselves. Created with both the child and the grown-up supporting them in mind.

ParentingWorkbooks
Purchase
Coming soon Practice

Meditations, EFT + Guided Practices

Sometimes understanding something isn't what you need next. You need to experience something different. Guided meditations, EFT practices, visualization, and other tools to move beyond insight and practice a different way of being.

Meditations + EFTSelf
Notify me
Coming soon Teaching

Why does this bother me so much?

Why do I keep repeating the same pattern? Why can I know something logically and still feel completely different emotionally? Short lessons, new perspectives, things to try. No psychology degree required.

TeachingsSelf
Notify me
Free Tool

Lumora

A different way to check in with yourself. Lumora was created to help you slow down, notice what's happening underneath the surface, and reconnect with yourself in the moments you need it most.

LumoraSelf
Explore

This library will keep growing.

I've spent years creating things for the people sitting across from me. Questions. Exercises. Teachings. Workbooks. Practices. Ways of explaining something that suddenly make it click.

UNBOTHERED gives all of that a home.

Some resources will help you understand yourself. Some will help you work through something. Some may completely change the way you see a problem.

Take what helps. Come back when you need something else.

And if you reach a point where you realize you don't want to figure the next part out alone... you can work with me directly.

Want to go deeper than a download?

  • Resources help.
  • Some things need a person.

Bring me the thing that's bothering you. We'll start there.

Heal Deeply. Live Authentically.

Become UNBOTHERED.

Start Your Transformation Complimentary · 30 minutes · Video